this is for u man my dear friend

this is for u man my dear friend,

This is for u ! some times it important to care for some one but its important to see the real reason behind all of out actions...but some times the other parties really have no feeling for u or what so its no point forcing your way through...its not healthy..

cause if it involved too much of attachments it will make u deluded from seeing the situation and u will be blinded and will not able to see what u are really doing...and ti make wrong judgments...and will leads to more unhappiness...

from what i have learn so far...its to just relax and see how things goes, humans tend to be overly to anxious of the surrounding things...and make small things out of big things...humans always thought that preventions from potential bad things is good..and controlling things is not the way to live life...we can only condition the things around us to happened..we are not god or saints , but u will see the whole picture after everything had happened ....

it doesnt means u put in 101% of time and effort then u will get things right .....sometimes its important to see the time and the condition to bear the fruits that makes things happen (karma).

there is no point pondering over and over again on a problem.... sometimes after everything had be over...i will think differently le ..cause the past is the past le..... so its important to live in the present moment....its the memories that remains...
despite bad experiences or good experiences it will have its "sweet" side of it..its the way how u see it.... so cheer man : ) always look on the bright side... : )

so it important to reflect the situations,oneself,ones thoughts against the nature of the world which is impermance...then u will get ur questions and ur problems...

its very important to know how to take care of urself before starting to take care of others and to love them .....its important to have a life..to do what u wanna do for life and for urself..to have a pastime and do the things u love to do......cause its important to have a balance of everything, so we will more healthier ...