forgiveness ??

whats forgiveness ???

its important to forgive and forget ..in life there are so many things that happened for a reason and it might not be always so smooth sailing oneself and others..so its important for oneself to forgive and forget all the angers towards everything in life....

its important for one to forgive other for all the bad things they have done cause no one in the world is perfect and they are prone to do things that are selfish and insensible......

but on the another side of the whole picture its important for us to reflect on ownself cause i feels that all humans are always selfish and wants others to do things in their way .... for example one might call a person to do something that he might feels thats its right for his friends and gets angry when that person doesnt followed his instructions...

but what i have learnt throught buddhism this few years is that its important for oneself to forgive others and also its as important to forgive urself in all the wrong things u have done and for what had happened... but one must know all overcomes(effects) is caused by a cause and the cause its what the things u have done..(law of karma)/(casue and effect)...

so the source of all unhappiness and happiness comes within and starts from oneself...therefore if u have a good heart in return u will be a more cheerful person,

some people migth say that y some goodhearted people ends up in a very tough time and things might not be fair for them about at least they have the more important and valuable thing is that they have a good heart to do more good even in time of crisis....

all goods and all evils deeds and thoughts is cause by oneself , its important to know that no one can help u but only one can help himself....i seriously feels that no one can help u just hope and wait for things to happend...tho sometimes the condition and time might be right...so its important to slot things then to wait for things to happened...so its important to open up ur heart to forgive yoursleve for all the things u have done ...... so to have a clearer mind to doin everything....

just wanna share somethings , from what i have learnt is that one cant be too rigid in their thinking and precepts...at the end of the day its not good and will find urself very stubborn...last time i really hate this band....but as time goes by it turn out that i love this band alot...the point i try to drive across is that there is not pt for one to hold on to their preceptions so firmly till they cant think porperly....casue everything changes .....even our thoughts and preceptions too....

but i sometimes feels i dont really like people that feels that they are always right and others are wrongs.....i really dont like it .....OPsss...wheres my forgiveness to them ?? AHAahahhahah