Emptiness

last time i got my question that is always in my mind answered by a venerable during one if the dharma class in my club..

i was asking...sometimes its real hard to make the right choose or to see what right and whats wrong...but she just say that we can always use nature of the world which is impermanence as our guide and to find out answer and to make the right choice and to see the truth......

since things are impermanence so we mustn't be too attached to anything , and u will end up disappointed and sad...but i last time though that the real meaning of letting go... it is not don't give a damn/"bochap" to things around u and just to have stay ur mind "empty" of all the thoughts so u don't care so much....

but i got this misunderstanding ....the correct way is not don't care about the surrounding thing around u so that u wont be disturb by them...although u don't care but problem might still be there..therefore the correct way is to know all the reason and understandings behind all problems how it happens and whats the source of the problem , then u will be able to have a clear piece of mind and to see the whole picture....

letting go is a step of being happy and its not to be too concerned about the outcome...and get too emotionally attached to things that u have done....
we are humans and sometime really will get sad and disappointed about the failure of life....relax and let things be the way they are......if we cant change something there is no point forcing ur way through ....: )

its hard to make decision at this when we are really blinded by all the delusion of the world outside...