let bittergourd be our guide in life

It is not that a person had changed over a period of time or whether did a person break the promise after a period of time....
yes ! i feels that they had changed but they still think that they are never change ? why ?

may be the interpretation of the meaning and how we interrupted the things over time ? till we didnt realise the change in us ?? time can change everything man !

hmmm....what should i say ?

sometime a person never change but its only the situation changes over time ? till he dont realised it ?

then they might just start pointing fingers at whos wrong/bad...without knowing that they are wrong, this is because they are living in your own world.

its all about changes !

Changes like for example when i am young i hate to eat bittergourd...but now as time passed i like it alot....
Firstly u see the point as the bittergourd is still always bitter but its the way things changes over time and also based on our own judgements..

its your dislikes of the bittergourd in the past but it had changed over the years...This changes really it the cause the most of the problem....so what can be concluded from there..??

we must adapt to changes and not move on !

No one should feels that they are 100% right or be so hard-headed on issues, and some might just be laying on their Laurens and Humans always have wrong perceptions in their own judgments and are always stubbornly thinking of things in their own views and thoughts,

and

dont relate it to others views .The whole world dont spin around u , u are just a small ants compare to the whole universal !

so dont be so selfish at times !The world is not about u only....there are some many things going on every second !

and

No one should be harsh to anyone despite of anything ! seriously !

so i always dont like harsh people cause they are always wrong and insensible people.

so i should say let the bittergourd be the " truth " in case , it will never change its bitter-ness.

so how we judge things ?

so everyone's guide must be in line with bittergourd and help us think properly out of their deluded piece of mind....

the truth is based on anything that is based on the the impermanence nature of life !
and things like...ego , pride , wealth , self........(they are impermanence!)